The educator's note
2 to 3 years, Te WhārikiAroha tried to put her shoes on before going outside. Velcro kept folding over. Asked 'help me' then pushed my hand away and did the second one herself. Stood up and stomped both feet.
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Putting on her own shoes
Learning Story
Before going outside, Aroha tried to put her shoes on by herself. The Velcro kept folding over, making the job trickier. Aroha asked, "help me", letting us know clearly that she needed support.
When help was offered, Aroha pushed the adult hand away and did the second shoe herself. Once both shoes were on, she stood up and stomped both feet. This looked like Aroha checking that her shoes were on and feeling the result with her whole body.
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What learning we noticed
Aroha was working on a real self-help task that matters in her day. She noticed when part of the task was hard, used words to ask for help, and then chose to take over when she was ready. This showed growing independence, problem solving, and confidence in her own ability.
We also noticed Aroha moving between needing help and wanting to do it herself. That back-and-forth is a normal and useful part of toddler learning. She was telling us, through her words and her actions, how much support she wanted.
Curriculum links
This links with Mana atua | Wellbeing, especially children developing self-care skills and confidence with daily routines. Aroha worked on putting on her own shoes before going outside.
This also links with Mana aotūroa | Exploration, particularly using strategies for active exploration and problem solving. Aroha kept working with the folded Velcro and completed the second shoe herself.
Mana reo | Communication is also visible here. Aroha used the words "help me" to let us know what she needed, then used her body language to show she was ready to try independently.
Where to next / Responding
We can support Aroha by giving her time to try first before stepping in. When she asks for help, we can offer just enough support, such as holding the shoe steady or pointing to the Velcro, then pause so she can take over again.
We will continue to notice how Aroha manages other dressing routines, such as shoes, socks, jackets, and bags. We can use simple language like, "You try first" and "I can help a little bit" so Aroha can keep building independence while still knowing support is close.
Whānau link
At home, whānau might notice Aroha wanting help for a moment and then wanting to do the rest herself.





